We are addicts.
What? No, you say. Addicts go to rehab. Addicts live on the streets and live hit to hit. We are not like that.
Oh, but we are, to some degree.
I’m not talking about a hard-core drug addiction to something like cocaine or heroin. I’m talking about our everyday addictions. The connotations of “addiction” bring to mind pockmarked skin, rehab, and excessive substance abuse, but really it can be prescribed to much smaller things—even things that are seemingly inconsequential.
Whether it be Starbucks, Facebook likes, getting hit on/affirmation from the opposite sex, or anything of the like, I would argue that the majority of us house something meaningless in our hearts that we get a little too much satisfaction from. You aren’t awake—or even willing to be happy—until you get that coffee. There’s a rush when you hit that 30th Facebook like. You get a little smug when someone of the opposite sex gives you an appraising eye. There are countless other small things that give us a “rush” we’d prefer not to go without.
There is a danger to these small vices, however. Think of drug users: they start small, get hooked, and then become so deep into their habit that they are consumed. Am I suggesting Facebook likes will consume you to the point of death? Or that if you don’t get your coffee, you’ll need a trip to rehab? No, definitely not. I am suggesting, though, that these small things need to be monitored in our hearts.
I think the root of idolatry is addiction.
An idol is defined as “an image or representation of a god used as an object of worship.” Take the extreme example of a cocaine addict: the drug becomes what their life centers around. They work for it, live for it, do anything to get that next hit just to get that temporary satisfaction. The drug is their idol and they embody the term “addict.”
Now on a less extreme scale: take Facebook likes, for example. How much are you poring over photos, editing them and Instagram-filtering them for optimal aesthetic pleasure to glean those likes? How many times a day are you checking that mirror, worrying a hair is out of place? How much per week are you spending on Starbucks? What could you be doing with your time and money otherwise? 1 John 5:21 (NLT) goes like this: “Dear children, keep away from anything that might take God’s place in your hearts.” God Himself is pretty clear about his thoughts on it in the 10 Commandments when He decrees that we shall have NO other gods before Him. We are too quick to think that these small things don’t take up substantial place in our hearts. Perhaps like a dash of cocaine, these small things may stick and grow to something more.
Addictions—be they big or small—will either master you, or serve you. 2 Peter 2:19b says “For a man is slave to whatever has mastered him.” You are on the fine line between slave and master. Drugs? When used responsibly, they are an asset to the medical world. Coffee? A great way to catch up with friends or get a boost for the day. Facebook, or any social media? A good way to keep up with friends, and have fun. Taking pride in your appearance? Nothing wrong with that, it’s good to be healthy and well groomed. From that stance, these things serve you. From the opposite stance, when you dwell on them and live for those small “rushes,” you are slave to them.
Jeremiah 2:13 holds a declaration from God about these small and worthless things: “My people have exchanged their Glory for worthless idols. Be appalled at this, O heavens, and shudder with great horror.” Shudder. What a strong word, and coming from God. These things appal him, that take up space in our hearts where he could be living. They have no right. His Glory cannot come in where there is no room!
God is sovereign in all things, including addictions big and small. Bask in his goodness. He comes to save. 2 Corinthians 3:17 states “Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”
FREEDOM. From all things big and small. From heartbreak, sadness, chains, and… addictions of all sizes.
Once you desire mastery over any area of your life, invite God in. It’s through him that the freedom of the Spirit comes and you have the right to overcome!
To end off I’ll leave you with a story of a “small overcoming.”
I have a friend who I joke with often about Facebook likes, seeing how many we can get. Although we joke, the amount of likes is satisfying. Recently one of her profile pictures got to a staggering 100 likes. We were shocked, and she felt good. She also, however, acknowledged that the “like” affirmation was getting a little heavy. So what did she do?
She deleted it. God needs that room.
Talk about mastery.